Woman, You Have the Keys to Successful Marriage.

Someone said that "women are not rehabilitation centers, psychiatric hospitals or teachers looking for men to fix. What women are looking for are partners in progress," I agree with that. I also believe that good marriages do not happen just like that but built with conscious, determined efforts by both parties, each one playing specific fundamental roles. There is this scripture in the bible that says, "By wisdom, a house is built, and through understanding, it is established; through knowledge, its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures", Proverbs 24:3. A woman is a mother and naturally gifted in the forming, nursing taking care of humans and stabilizing a home. Another saying in proverbs 14:14 confirms that the wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands, the foolish one tears hers down. I am convinced again that you are a smart woman and not like the foolish ones that tear her home down. The nature of a real woman is just that of a wise woman that knows who her husband is, understands who he is and with wisdom builds her home with this knowledge and understanding. It will be fantastic if you understand and assume the place of a mother of everyone and check if you can relate to everyone, the way a mother should, to her children. To achieve this, you need to stay in the place of womanliness, take time to remove the coverings from your eyes first and make sure they are not there, before looking to remove the dot from another person's eyes. It may sound strange to you to know that many women do not even know or understand who they are and desire to function in the place of the man. Quite some women have lost their innate endowments that made them special, which are for God's purpose and good pleasure. A good number of them, also, do not even understand the stuff they are. I presume you are not like them because I discern you are a real woman.Nevertheless, you are like the mother Earth. You are the mother of the world that produces harvest for any seed planted in it. Everyone on the Earth is your child; treat them with love and compassion. Pity them when they do not understand you and are misbehaving. Correct them with respect and let kindness do its perfect works. This book is specifically for women. It is not for pretty reading. It is a study book, to enable every willing woman, rediscover those revered endowments she has, that made her a woman. It will allow you to discover absolute uniqueness, natural and external that made you a woman. God is waiting to see you use that uniqueness and take your proper place on Earth as a real woman. He is expecting you to create an aura of womanliness wherever you are. The world of womanliness is a place of love, peace, equity, and joy. Man is to give you the protection and cover you need to release your aroma of respect to the world, at home and in the market place when you are found. Read this book carefully to see the woman's world. I am optimistic you will find this book exciting and learn many things you are ignorant about yourself as a woman. By this book, you will be able to appraise how wonderful you have played your role in your marriage relationship and improve on it. You will also see some clips of your actions on the screen of life. Life is like a reality show in front of cameras; viewers watch the way you do your things, and how your life affects everything around you.I am not discoursing marriage here from the perspective I know many women might assume me to be. I am not either trying to whitewash the situation to make any man feel he is not a problem or is not a problematic burden borne by the women in marriage. It has never been in my character to substitute the interest of seeing a successful marriage for the aggrandizement of male chauvinism. I wrote this book as a worried individual and a concerned man who strongly believe that the women have all it takes to ensure marriage success more than the men.