Why Is He So Mean to Me?

Why Is He So Mean to Me? Authored by abuse survivor Cindy Burrell, "Why Is He So Mean to Me?" unravels the confusing and chaotic world of verbal and emotional abuse. The book walks the reader through the debilitating characteristics of the enabler-abuser relationship, clearly revealing the abuser mindset and the abuser's most common tactics. It also provides an in-depth look at the victim's efforts to earn her abuser's love and explains why those efforts so often fail, how an abuser will likely respond when her responses change, and how to see through his mind games and traps. "Why Is He So Mean to Me?" answers the question every abuse victim asks herself. The book provides the reader with a wealth of valuable, firsthand insight - the kind of clarity a confused victim needs to begin the process of reclaiming her value and her life.