Femdom Academy: SM Course for Mistresses & Subs, Beginners & Advanced

The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course.

This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes.

"Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses.

Content

Foreword - 7

Introduction - 9

About the Author - - 9

How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11

Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12

Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14

Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15

Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17

The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19

Why Does a Man Submit? - 20

The Silence Challenge - - 24

The Femdom Mindset - - 28

The Malesub Mindset - - 30

The SSC Principle - 31

The RACK Principle - 33

Short Theory Section - - 35

Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38

Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41

Create Your Own Role - - 45

Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52

The Location - - 52

What Should I Wear? - 55

Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57

Greeting the Mistress - 58

Practical Tips - - 60

Practical Examples - - 62

A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63

Topping from the Bottom - - 66

Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68

Practical Exercise - - 68

Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69

The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72

Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78

The Most Important SM Practices - - 81

Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143

The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144

The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146

The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147

Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161

Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156

Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163

Saying No - - 167

Slave Questionnaire - - 169

Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176

Covering - - 179

Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181

The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181

The Ruined Orgasm - 185

Forced Orgasms - 186

Prostate Milking - - 187

Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191

The Follow-up Conversation - - 193

Hygiene - - 197

Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198

Goals for Femdoms - - 200

The Session Log - - 201

The Slave Contract - - 202

Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220

Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223

Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227

Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232

Glossary/Terms - 237

Bonus - 250

Reader comments

"A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa

"Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela

"The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy

"Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma