His Dough, Her Cookie

Sadly, many intimate relationships have been reduced to transactions--women desiring his dough and men lusting after her cookie--without either having a true understanding of the relationship between dough and cookie.

Dough is to cookie, what man is to woman. How so? A cookie could not exist if not for the dough, and dough is not complete in its raw form. Biblically, woman would not exist if not for man and man is not complete without woman.

HIS DOUGH, HER COOKIE is the Black woman's blueprint for dating in the 21st century. Today, we live in a fast-paced society that often leaves us rushing from place to place, sometimes, person to person. Both, men and women, are so busy chasing after their dreams that we fail to remember one of our primary purposes in life--companionship. We want the most out of our career, yet we settle for less in our love life. We won't work for free, yet we date for fun. In the midst of all the playfulness, we forget that the purpose of dating is marriage.

Dating may not be important at the moment, but at some point marriage will be. HIS DOUGH, HER COOKIE serves as a dating intervention for all Black women who believe placing their love life on hold will result in life happily ever after.